Pick your style and theirs to see, axis by axis, where you match or differ, a line to understand them, and something to try together. No points, no rankings.
Your attention points different ways. Time alone is not a rejection.
Try together
Agree in advance on how often you meet and how long between messages.
Basis
The 16 styles are this site’s own classification. Built from where your four axes match or differ. This is not a verdict on how well you match, and not a ranking.
How You Take In Information
You: 実 ConcreteDifferThem: 想 Possibility-Oriented
To understand them
One of you prefers the concrete; the other, the possibilities. Both are valid ways to see.
Try together
When you talk, separate the facts from the ideas.
Basis
The 16 styles are this site’s own classification. Built from where your four axes match or differ. This is not a verdict on how well you match, and not a ranking.
One of you decides by reasoning; the other by feeling.
Try together
When deciding, say both the reason and the feeling.
Basis
The 16 styles are this site’s own classification. Built from where your four axes match or differ. This is not a verdict on how well you match, and not a ranking.
How You Approach Things
You: 画 PlannedDifferThem: 柔 Flexible
To understand them
One of you decides, then moves; the other moves, then decides.
Try together
Separate the plans that stay fixed from the ones that can float.
Basis
The 16 styles are this site’s own classification. Built from where your four axes match or differ. This is not a verdict on how well you match, and not a ranking.
The four-character code is this site’s own kanji notation and does not map to other tests’ letter codes.
No compatibility points or rankings. Only how your tendencies differ, and words to understand that.
Please don't pin anyone down by a result. Tendencies shift with situation and time.
