Love & Relationship Style
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Its colour depends on your result
The short version is quick, so the result shows a wider range. The long version has more questions, so the range gets narrower. If you take the long one, your guide uses that result. The short result stays in your history.
Love & Relationship Style
Find your comfortable distance and how you show feelings.
- No sign-up, saved on your device
- Short: 12 questions, ~3 min
- Free through the results
What this test shows
- Closeness
- Reassurance
- Communication
Looks at three things in close relationships — how close feels right, what helps you feel secure, and how you like feelings to be shared — based on your answers.
What this test can’t tell you
It gives no compatibility score, no prediction of whether a relationship will last, and no verdict on marriage or dating. It doesn’t guess who you’re attracted to or whether you’re seeing someone. It is not a clinical attachment-style diagnosis.
While you answer
You can choose “Prefer not to answer” for any question; it is left out of scoring. If you skip every question for a tendency, it shows as “not measured” — never filled in with a midpoint.
No ads or notifications while you answer.
Your answers are saved on this device. Your answers and results are never sent to analytics or ads.
What you get for free
- The whole result, including its range
- One action to try next
- How your last 3 results changed, with your notes
- Your results collected in your guide
You never pay to see a result.
Where the questions come from
Lee’s love styles (six types)
Items designed originally by this site (no items from any specific commercial or academic scale are used)
Original questions written by this site with reference to Lee’s love styles. They do not inherit the reliability or validity of any existing scale.
References
- Lee, J. A. (1977). A typology of styles of loving. doi:10.1177/014616727700300204
- Hendrick, C., & Hendrick, S. (1986). A theory and method of love. doi:10.1037/0022-3514.50.2.392
